By Warren Dews Jr.
Capital Region Independent Media
Editor’s Note: We are pleased to bring our readers the second installment in an ongoing series about the weight loss journey of Warren Dews Jr. He is writing this series, presented in several installments, with the hope that it may help others who are also facing challenges.
Embarking on a weight loss journey is never easy, but it is a decision that can have a profound impact on one’s life. This is my story, a story of resilience, support, and the pursuit of a healthier and happier self. As I promised, I will keep you informed about my weight loss journey, and it is with great joy that I share with you the progress I have made thus far.
Seven months ago, I made the decision to embark on this journey for the third time. This time, however, things felt different. I met with a team of dedicated professionals who would guide me through the process of gastric bypass surgery. Among them were a dietitian, a psychologist, and a young woman who taught a class on the procedure and life after surgery, and many more people as part of the overall team. Each person played a vital role in preparing me mentally and physically for the transformation ahead.
One of the key aspects of my journey was realizing and addressing my relationship with food. For six months, I worked closely with a dietitian who helped me gain a better understanding of the foods I should and shouldn’t eat. This process was essential in ensuring long-term success and a sustainable lifestyle change. It also reminded me that I should listen to my wife more, because most of the things I was told she has been telling me for over 20 years.
Recognizing the psychological impact of such a life-changing experience, I also met with a psychologist. This step was crucial in ensuring that I was mentally prepared and stable to undergo the surgery. The psychologist’s guidance and support helped me navigate the emotional challenges that often accompany weight loss journeys.
During one of the classes, I had the opportunity to ask the young woman teaching the class about her motivation for doing this job. As she began to explain, her voice filled with emotion, and tears welled up in her eyes. Witnessing her passion and dedication reaffirmed that I was in the right place, surrounded by the right people. The compassion and care demonstrated by everyone involved in my journey have been truly awe inspiring.
Another unexpected aspect of my journey has been discovering the number of people in my daily life who have undergone similar surgeries. As I shared my story, I found that others were freely sharing their own experiences and transformations. This community of support has been invaluable, providing encouragement, advice, and a sense of camaraderie. In the coming weeks, I plan to share “Get To Know” videos with some of these incredible individuals, highlighting their journeys and the impact they have made on their own lives.
This is actually my third time considering this process, with the previous attempts derailed by changes in insurance coverage. However, this time, despite another insurance change, I am thrilled to share that my procedure has been approved, and I have received a pre-operation date. The paperwork even states that the surgery must be completed before the end of May. This news fills me with excitement and determination to finally achieve my goals.
My weight loss journey has been a testament to the power of determination, support, and finding the right team of professionals. While this procedure may not be suitable for everyone, my hope is that my story inspires others to make positive changes in their lives, whatever form those changes may take.
Let us all strive to not only improve ourselves but also uplift and support those around us on their own transformative journeys. With the support of my incredible team and the encouragement of my community, I am confident that I will achieve the healthier and happier life I have been working towards.
Warren Dews Jr. is vice president and publisher of Capital Region Independent Media, which publishes The Columbia Paper.