Body, Mind & Spirit: Being the wife of a hunter

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By Pat Larsen

For Capital Region Independent Media

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Pat Larsen

It’s not just the peace and quiet that I look forward to at home while my “hunter-gatherer” is engaged in early scouting pretty much every day once he’s gotten his license in September.

Although I must confess it’s a pretty awesome time around the house for me.

There’s this incredible  laser-like focus that he has in late summer that brings about a spontaneous tying up of loose ends and all those projects he began in the spring. Poof, snap, and the logs get split, the wood bin gets filled, the painting is completed. Repairs are done with not a single request or hounding from me by mid-September.

I’m smiling knowing his incentive is just to make Momma happy so he’ll be free to hunt from October on. So be it.

I do love all the benefits and perks of being a hunter’s wife.

Yes, I’m aware that many more women are engaged in this sport as well in this day and age. But in our household, it is the role assumed by the guys to stock the freezer. 

In truth, there seems to be fewer and fewer sportsmen out there like the one I’m married to. But regardless of what values are followed elsewhere, in my household the regulations are followed and the result is a full freezer every, or at least most every, season.

There’s a wonderful tradition that “we” follow together after my hunter has taken a deer.

A bundle of pine greens is placed in the mouth of the animal that symbolizes his respect for the food that brought it to its maturity that would then feed and nourish his family.

My role is to join my hunter at the site of its demise and to pass some incense over the animal to release the animal’s spirit back into the woods from where it came. It feels right to do this and so we do it every time. 

It’s fascinating to actually watch the preparations that my hunter engages in to create the best environment for a successful hunting season early on. 

Yes, there’s the licensing part and then scouting the property that he hunts on. Ours, actually. Smaller than adjacent parcels, which then impacts what he’s entitled to as deemed by the DEC in its regulatory process. Tagging and reporting to the DEC helps to control population and makes for a fair hunting season. 

And he honors that requirement.

A huge component in this preparation involves the process of target shooting, whether with a bow or a rifle. The skill this takes and the expertise that then follows allows for a proper kill. 

The stories after a hunt reflect the confidence of my hunter to make the shot or not, based on this  preemptive work.

Not a step to be overlooked. 

He’s passed on the respect of this pastime to all of our sons and grandsons, who also have begun hunting. 

Each of them even participates in the butchering if the interest is there as well. 

What I wanted to share, most of all, is that as the wife of the hunter, I am amazed at how much time and energy actually goes into the entire process from beginning to end. No one just walks into the woods claiming victory.

I’m proud of my hunter. His work ethic, his dedication, the attention to rules and protecting the rights of all hunters so this craft will continue forever in this country is at the forefront of every season for him.

I’m in it for the stew. But that’s a story for another time.

Pat Larsen is a fitness instructor at The Shamrock House in East Durham. Contact Pat at 518-275-8686 for more information.

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